Please stop inviting me to FaceBook.
Every couple of weeks, I get FaceBook invitations landing in my mailbox. This is in addition to a bunch of e-mail notices from MySpace and some sporadic ones from LDSLinkup, LinkedIn and Friendster. Orkut doesn't bug me too much, but I'm not counting on that to last. I've got social networking fatigue in a bad way.
The biggest pain is that I don't like signing up for a new site every time something becomes the Next Big Thing™. I caved on MySpace only because it seemed like that's where everyone was going. Now everyone is high-tailing it for FaceBook, the new flavor of the month in a sea of funky-named sites looking to cash in on the Web 2.0 gold rush. I just don't have the patience to check a dozen websites with varying circles of friends, especially when I've staked out my own little corner of the Interweb.
Google might shake some of that up. They're one of the major forces behind OpenSocial, an API designed to allow all of these sites to talk to each other and allow programmers to design widgets once instead of for every since site out there. A bunch of heavy hitters have already signed on, including MySpace, Friendster, Orkut, LinkedIn and Six Apart. If that gets mixed up with a bit of OpenID, it could lead the way to the social networking promised land. Imagine a single logon that displays all of the data from your favorite social networking sites in a single spot. I don't know about you, but that sounds good to me.
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Posted by Jesse | Filed under: Geek, Rants on November 4th, 2007 at 6:35 pm












True Dat! I’m looking forward to OpenSocial as well. I barely check myspace, except for the occasional email I get from my non-lds friends that I can’t get from LDSLinkup.
Plus I’ve yet to figure it out. I have 230 invitations to become a Werewolf Pirate Ninja Wizard who quotes the “Office” and Dane Cook.
The only reason I ended up on Facebook was for work. They told me to create a profile so all the techs in the Art Dept. could communicate without mass emails.
I agree with Jason about the warewolf pirate ninja thing.
Anyway Jesse, you wanna join?
Hey, I completely quit Social Networking until I needed to maintain MySpace for Obama, and then got sucked into Facebook. Of course, having found out that Chris Hughes was a good guy (he responds to every email I’ve sent to him) helped my impression of Facebook, but hey - at least it’s useful for more than spam! Seriously, I was burnt out on this kind of stuff for a long time, although I see the average allure of having a social network. But, I almost don’t have enough time for real friends, much less virtual ones!
Open Social is gonna rock, thanks for blogging it!
I love Facebook. I use it to keep in touch with all my family back home, and it’s not addictive like Linkup was. At least it’s not addictive for me.
I dunno. I figure blogging (especially with the plethora of subscription options) is good enough for keeping in touch. I’ve always though of social networks as a way to meet new people and find lost acquaintances more than anything else.
yeah - blogging, although comments are there, seems a bit mono-directional to me. I have FaceBook, but I’ve never done anything else, besides the blog. I have used it to find old friends and school mates. For that, I’ve been thankful.
Though I’m not a techie, I can totally understand the Open API idea, and why it makes those of that ilk slobber on their keyboards.
PS: Thanks for the comments - I’m a regular reader of yours, but an all too infrequent commenter. I shall do better!!